Some people easily forget what marriage is about: support, trust, caring, and a cooperative lifestyle that provides everybody involved with an enhanced sense of self-worth and security. But some people, like Jim Sulski, at MSN continue to promote individual needs over that of the family, even when they are destructive and overwhelmingly selfish. I have no quibble with an individual’s needs, but if you want to put your own needs first, then don’t get married.